హీరోయిన్ నిరాకరకాలుగా ఆల్మోస్ట్ వామ్ప్స్ గా చూపిస్తున్న ఈ రోజుల్లో
ఒకసారి విశ్వనాధ్ సినిమాల్లో హీరోయిన్లను పరిశీలిస్తే వాళ్ళ చరక్తెరిస్తిసతిఒన్ మొత్తం చాల మతులు హీరోయిన్ పై స్థానం లో ఉంది హీరో హీరోయిన్ ని ఆరాదిస్తూ ఉండటమే మనకి కనబడుతుంది
సప్తపది - హీరో గిరీష్ హీరోయిన్ సబితా ని ఆరాధిస్తూ ఉంటాడు ....ప్రేమ వ్యక్తం చేయడం కాని వెంట పడటం కాని ఉండవు
హీరోయిన్ ఇస్ ఉప్పెర్ అండ్ ఇస్ లేఅర్నేడ్ అండ్ హీరో ఇస్ అద్మిరింగ్ హీరోయిన్
ఆపద్భాందవుడు- హీరోయిన్ వాళ్ళ పక్కింట్లో పశువులు పెంచుకునే వాడిగా హీరో...హీరోయిన్ ని దేవత గా ఆరాధిస్తూ ఉంటాడు....హీరోయిన్ తన ఆపద్భాందవుడు గా భావించి ప్రేమించటం మొదలు పెట్టిన తర్వాతా కూడా హీరో ఆరాధిస్తూ ఉంటాడు..
సాగర సంగమం- అందరికి తెల్సిందే ...హీరోయిన్ ని హీరో ఎంతగా ఆరధన భావం తో చూస్తాడో..ఎప్పుడు సమె లెవెల్ లో చూడదు...హీరోయిన్ ఇష్టపడుతుంది కాని హీరో కి ఒక దేవత నే
శుభలేఖ - హీరో హీరోయిన్ ని కాపాడుతూ ఉంటాడు కాని ప్రేమ తో కాకుండా ఆరాధన తో
సిరి వెన్నెల - గుడ్డివాడైన హీరో తనకి విద్య నేర్పిన ఆవిడని ఎలా ఆరాదిస్తాడో ఇస్తాపదతాడో చూడచ్చు
స్వర్ణ కమలం - ఈ సినిమాలో హీరోయిన్ నాట్యం ని ప్రోత్సహించడం కోసం హీరోయిన్ తపన పడుతూ ఉంటాడు...
హీరో హీరోయిన్ కి మధ్య ఉండే రేలషన్ చాలఆ అద్భుతం గా పవిత్రంగా ఉంటుంది ఆయన సినిమాల్లో...
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ఎందఱో మహానుభావులు
Saturday, January 21, 2012
Friday, January 20, 2012
ప్రస్తుతానికి తప్పదు
నా పక్కనే ఉన్నాయ్ చాల కాగితాలు..చాల జ్ఞాపకాలు
నా చెంతనే ఉన్నాయ్ చాల వేదనలు చాల రోదనలు
నా ముందుగానే ఉన్నాయ్ ..చాల దారులు చాల గోతులు
నా పైననే ఉన్నాయ్ చాల బాధ్యతలు చాల ఉత్సుకతలు
నా కల్లమున్దున్నాయ్ చాలా దౌర్భాగ్యాలు చాల కుత్సితాలు
పారిపోవాల ....ఎదురీదాల...
కుళ్ళు పూసుకోవలా...కడిగెయ్యాల...
మనకెందుకులే అని ఊరుకోవాల
అందరు ఊరుకుంటే ఎట్లా అని నిలదీయలా
అంత ఓపిక ఉందా ..అంత సత్తువ ఉందా
అంత నిస్వార్థం ఉందా..అంత పట్టుదల ఉందా
అంత క్రమశిక్షణ ఉందా...అంత నిబద్దత ఉందా...
అంత ధైర్యం ఉందా అంత తెగువ ఉందా
అంత నిజం ఉందా..అంత సత్యం ఉందా
అంత దైన్యం ఉందా అంత క్రోధం ఉందా
..ఊరుకుందాం...ఊరికే ఉందాం..
ఇలాగే ఉందాం..ఇలాగే చాద్దాం
నువ్వెంచుకున్నావ్...నువ్వే తగిలించుకున్నావ్..
నువ్వే కావాలన్నావ్...
నీచేత్తో చేసిందే నీ జీవితం
నువ్ మెదనేసుకుందే ఈ డోలు
ఎవరు తప్పు కాదు
ఎవరిది తప్పు లేదు
అందరు మహానుభావులే
నా చెంతనే ఉన్నాయ్ చాల వేదనలు చాల రోదనలు
నా ముందుగానే ఉన్నాయ్ ..చాల దారులు చాల గోతులు
నా పైననే ఉన్నాయ్ చాల బాధ్యతలు చాల ఉత్సుకతలు
నా కల్లమున్దున్నాయ్ చాలా దౌర్భాగ్యాలు చాల కుత్సితాలు
పారిపోవాల ....ఎదురీదాల...
కుళ్ళు పూసుకోవలా...కడిగెయ్యాల...
మనకెందుకులే అని ఊరుకోవాల
అందరు ఊరుకుంటే ఎట్లా అని నిలదీయలా
అంత ఓపిక ఉందా ..అంత సత్తువ ఉందా
అంత నిస్వార్థం ఉందా..అంత పట్టుదల ఉందా
అంత క్రమశిక్షణ ఉందా...అంత నిబద్దత ఉందా...
అంత ధైర్యం ఉందా అంత తెగువ ఉందా
అంత నిజం ఉందా..అంత సత్యం ఉందా
అంత దైన్యం ఉందా అంత క్రోధం ఉందా
..ఊరుకుందాం...ఊరికే ఉందాం..
ఇలాగే ఉందాం..ఇలాగే చాద్దాం
నువ్వెంచుకున్నావ్...నువ్వే తగిలించుకున్నావ్..
నువ్వే కావాలన్నావ్...
నీచేత్తో చేసిందే నీ జీవితం
నువ్ మెదనేసుకుందే ఈ డోలు
ఎవరు తప్పు కాదు
ఎవరిది తప్పు లేదు
అందరు మహానుభావులే
ఏమి చెయ్యాలి
ఒక మనిషిని మార్చడానికి ఇంత సమయం పడుతుందా
ఒక మనిషి మీద ప్రేమ కలగడానికి ఎక్కువ సమయం పట్తడే...
మరి మార్హ్చడానికి...మారడానికి...ఇంత సమయమా...
అసలు మారటం అంటూ ఉంటుందా...కంప్రోమిసే అవటం తప్ప వేరే దారి లేదా మనిషికి
కంప్రోమిసే అవ్వలేని మనిషికి జీవితం లేదా...
నిజంగా ఎవరికీ కావలసినట్టు వాళ్ళు జీవిన్చాగాలరా..కలలకి అనుగుణంగా ..
మరి డబ్బో !!! ఎలా వస్తుంది...
డబ్బు ఎలా వొచ్చినా సమాజం బతక నిస్తుందా
ఒక ప్రేమ కసిగా మారటానికి ఎవరు కారణం..
ప్రేమ స్వార్థాన్ని కోరుకుంది కాబట్టే ఈ శిక్ష నా
అసలు అది ప్రేమ కాదేమో...
మరి ఆ తపన ..ఆ ఆరాటం...ప్రేమ కాదా మరి
అవకాశం ,అవసరం వాళ్ళ వొచ్చిన పరిస్థితే కాని...లోపలి నుంచి వొచ్చింది కాదేమో
మనసుడే తప్పేమో...నిన్ను నిన్నుగా ప్రేమించేదే ప్రేమా..ఇదంతా కదా
నేను నువ్వు అంటే ఏమిటి శరీరం తప్ప మనలో తేడా ఏమిటి
మన పరిస్థితా
మన ఆలోచనా
మన తెలివా..
...చాల దూరంగా జరిగిపోయిన మనసు మల్లి దగ్గరయ్యే అవకాశం ఈ జీవితం ఇస్తుందా
ఎం చెయ్యాలి....
మనమోక్కలమే లేమే..మనతో కొన్ని అమాయక ప్రాణాలు ఉన్నాయ్...వాటి పరిస్థితి ఏంటి...
మనం లేకుండా ఉంటె ఏమవుతుంది అనేది బ్రమే నేమో
...ఎం చెయ్యాలి
ఒక మనిషి మీద ప్రేమ కలగడానికి ఎక్కువ సమయం పట్తడే...
మరి మార్హ్చడానికి...మారడానికి...ఇంత సమయమా...
అసలు మారటం అంటూ ఉంటుందా...కంప్రోమిసే అవటం తప్ప వేరే దారి లేదా మనిషికి
కంప్రోమిసే అవ్వలేని మనిషికి జీవితం లేదా...
నిజంగా ఎవరికీ కావలసినట్టు వాళ్ళు జీవిన్చాగాలరా..కలలకి అనుగుణంగా ..
మరి డబ్బో !!! ఎలా వస్తుంది...
డబ్బు ఎలా వొచ్చినా సమాజం బతక నిస్తుందా
ఒక ప్రేమ కసిగా మారటానికి ఎవరు కారణం..
ప్రేమ స్వార్థాన్ని కోరుకుంది కాబట్టే ఈ శిక్ష నా
అసలు అది ప్రేమ కాదేమో...
మరి ఆ తపన ..ఆ ఆరాటం...ప్రేమ కాదా మరి
అవకాశం ,అవసరం వాళ్ళ వొచ్చిన పరిస్థితే కాని...లోపలి నుంచి వొచ్చింది కాదేమో
మనసుడే తప్పేమో...నిన్ను నిన్నుగా ప్రేమించేదే ప్రేమా..ఇదంతా కదా
నేను నువ్వు అంటే ఏమిటి శరీరం తప్ప మనలో తేడా ఏమిటి
మన పరిస్థితా
మన ఆలోచనా
మన తెలివా..
...చాల దూరంగా జరిగిపోయిన మనసు మల్లి దగ్గరయ్యే అవకాశం ఈ జీవితం ఇస్తుందా
ఎం చెయ్యాలి....
మనమోక్కలమే లేమే..మనతో కొన్ని అమాయక ప్రాణాలు ఉన్నాయ్...వాటి పరిస్థితి ఏంటి...
మనం లేకుండా ఉంటె ఏమవుతుంది అనేది బ్రమే నేమో
...ఎం చెయ్యాలి
Friday, January 13, 2012
my trip to tanuku 2012
Recently visited Tanuku a commercial town in west godavari region for couple of days
the reason for visit was for visiting a plot for sale and also to recharge myself..the former being more significant...
why a plot at tanuku..why not at hyderabad
i have this long lasting thought and dream to stay in a place of greenery where there is peace and tranquility with no electronic gadgets not even cell phone
and me and my husband leading a very simple...cool life..
i wanted to build a two roomed simple house there in the plot with all kinds of plants around...marigold...mandaram...thulasi ...what not...
i even went on to dream myself to be an old woman with simple cotton saree living peaceful with no targets in life....
so my travel to tanuku was for that
my handsome brother in law said that there is a plot very near to tanuku...so the plan was to go and visit that plot before taking a decision
all plan made for travel
left on bike towards sec bad station on bike at 5:45 am on New year day Jan 1st 2012
never saw hyd recently at such early hrs
all i could see is sweepers on road..and some elderly men going for a walk
remaining all age groups would have had a blast on new yr and probably have slept happily...
it was not so cold morning
we went to husbands cousins house first kept our bike there
...searched for an auto dint get one...took a bus and left to station
this was the first time i am boarding a general compartment
my parents never did much of travelling and hence dont know much abt trains
as we did not get tickets i opted for janmabhoomi which has all general
sat for 8 hours in general..did not feel that hectic
in the train ..watched a group of very young dynamic badminton players...from pullela gopichand academy ...thier coach was taking them to vijayawada
i envied thier fitness..they were sleek healthy
didnot have anything since morning and was feeling hungry and by the time train reached guntur
again...my handsome..... also smart brother in law...already ordered one of his sub-ordinates to bring food for us at guntur station
his name was "meera"..name sounded strange...thought the name would have been mirajuddin
was feeling extremely hungry when the train reached guntur...got the food ..ate like a hungry dog :)
was thinking what made this guy bring lunch for us
will my h+s BIL give him money
will subordinates do anything for bosses etc etc
reached tadepalli gudem ...felt relaxed
...alas...my chappals broke...walked limping to nearest bus station
my dear hubby instead of taking me in auto to tanuku..gave a statement
"why should we spend in village like this and save in city"
got into tanuku bus
the driver had a soft toy doll ..hanged beside him..looked strange to me...thought it was to remember his daughter ...
reached Y junction near tanuku
BIL along with his BIL and daughter were already waiting there for us
myself and husband on bike
and rest on another bike
reached home...........
yaaaaaaaaawn..........thats all for now.
good night
the reason for visit was for visiting a plot for sale and also to recharge myself..the former being more significant...
why a plot at tanuku..why not at hyderabad
i have this long lasting thought and dream to stay in a place of greenery where there is peace and tranquility with no electronic gadgets not even cell phone
and me and my husband leading a very simple...cool life..
i wanted to build a two roomed simple house there in the plot with all kinds of plants around...marigold...mandaram...thulasi ...what not...
i even went on to dream myself to be an old woman with simple cotton saree living peaceful with no targets in life....
so my travel to tanuku was for that
my handsome brother in law said that there is a plot very near to tanuku...so the plan was to go and visit that plot before taking a decision
all plan made for travel
left on bike towards sec bad station on bike at 5:45 am on New year day Jan 1st 2012
never saw hyd recently at such early hrs
all i could see is sweepers on road..and some elderly men going for a walk
remaining all age groups would have had a blast on new yr and probably have slept happily...
it was not so cold morning
we went to husbands cousins house first kept our bike there
...searched for an auto dint get one...took a bus and left to station
this was the first time i am boarding a general compartment
my parents never did much of travelling and hence dont know much abt trains
as we did not get tickets i opted for janmabhoomi which has all general
sat for 8 hours in general..did not feel that hectic
in the train ..watched a group of very young dynamic badminton players...from pullela gopichand academy ...thier coach was taking them to vijayawada
i envied thier fitness..they were sleek healthy
didnot have anything since morning and was feeling hungry and by the time train reached guntur
again...my handsome..... also smart brother in law...already ordered one of his sub-ordinates to bring food for us at guntur station
his name was "meera"..name sounded strange...thought the name would have been mirajuddin
was feeling extremely hungry when the train reached guntur...got the food ..ate like a hungry dog :)
was thinking what made this guy bring lunch for us
will my h+s BIL give him money
will subordinates do anything for bosses etc etc
reached tadepalli gudem ...felt relaxed
...alas...my chappals broke...walked limping to nearest bus station
my dear hubby instead of taking me in auto to tanuku..gave a statement
"why should we spend in village like this and save in city"
got into tanuku bus
the driver had a soft toy doll ..hanged beside him..looked strange to me...thought it was to remember his daughter ...
reached Y junction near tanuku
BIL along with his BIL and daughter were already waiting there for us
myself and husband on bike
and rest on another bike
reached home...........
yaaaaaaaaawn..........thats all for now.
good night
Back ground checking for brides
i was thinking there should be a background checking for prospective bride grooms ..and in matrimony sites/offices ...a guy with background checked card should be the most preferred one...i have friends who were promised an incorrect salary/property/debts etc. and got married....after marriage same case for brides also....
this mostly happens due to parents not being cautious
...feeling hesitant to cross check twice
as mainly marriage is a trusted relationship
example...a bride is ready for marriage
brides parents search for a groom with a decent salary say 30k
they get a proposal ..who publishes in matrimony site or answers a ph call saying he gets 35k
so what is the cross check there...the girls parents cannot ask for proof as boys side will get offended
so they happily think that they got more than what they thought
do a grand marriage ....and boast of thier son in law salary
the girl also enters with same "trust" that the salary of her husband is enough to lead a life she expected/dreamt...
as usual after marriage ...first 2 months...u like chiru...i like chiru...
third month slowly struggle starts....somehow the guys payslip or bank statement or the guy himself says that he gets approx 25k totally
and 35 k was his about to get hiked salary etc
so the same "trust" gets betrayed...
girl stops believing the guy....all her dreams shatter....she tells to parents...parents cannot do anything now...so the parameter which was basis of the marriage is incorrect now,,,,
same case2: brides parents wants to marry her to a guy who has job and has his own house
the guy shows a house and says it is a common house between him and his bros
guys mother also supports him..
after marriage they came to know that the house does not belong to this guy...and the house is on the name of somebody else
so what should the girls parents do now
better early than late
i say its always better to do a background and thorough checking of the guy before getting married
i very well know that its a sensitive issue on the brides parents side to ask for the credibility of the information...
that is the reason this should be done by the matrimonial site or mediators
i even say ..keeping a private detective and finding the details is much wiser than jumping into the married life without proper cross checking
again pls dont say that person is important ...and his character is important
we cant get those checked....this blog post is not for such senti morons
this mostly happens due to parents not being cautious
...feeling hesitant to cross check twice
as mainly marriage is a trusted relationship
example...a bride is ready for marriage
brides parents search for a groom with a decent salary say 30k
they get a proposal ..who publishes in matrimony site or answers a ph call saying he gets 35k
so what is the cross check there...the girls parents cannot ask for proof as boys side will get offended
so they happily think that they got more than what they thought
do a grand marriage ....and boast of thier son in law salary
the girl also enters with same "trust" that the salary of her husband is enough to lead a life she expected/dreamt...
as usual after marriage ...first 2 months...u like chiru...i like chiru...
third month slowly struggle starts....somehow the guys payslip or bank statement or the guy himself says that he gets approx 25k totally
and 35 k was his about to get hiked salary etc
so the same "trust" gets betrayed...
girl stops believing the guy....all her dreams shatter....she tells to parents...parents cannot do anything now...so the parameter which was basis of the marriage is incorrect now,,,,
same case2: brides parents wants to marry her to a guy who has job and has his own house
the guy shows a house and says it is a common house between him and his bros
guys mother also supports him..
after marriage they came to know that the house does not belong to this guy...and the house is on the name of somebody else
so what should the girls parents do now
better early than late
i say its always better to do a background and thorough checking of the guy before getting married
i very well know that its a sensitive issue on the brides parents side to ask for the credibility of the information...
that is the reason this should be done by the matrimonial site or mediators
i even say ..keeping a private detective and finding the details is much wiser than jumping into the married life without proper cross checking
again pls dont say that person is important ...and his character is important
we cant get those checked....this blog post is not for such senti morons
Friday, April 1, 2011
Tajmahal is for seeing
I have never gone to Tajmahal nor is this post to admire the beauty of Tajmahal nor is it to prove the telugu couplet "ralletthina koolilevvaru" kind of discussion... So what is it i want to say.. I am going to say a truth ..which has dawned upon me recently Tajmahal is for seeing and not living... Yes and if we think ever to live in it...then its a grave for us... .... so what... This is an analogy....boss.. a comparision against artists... Artists are born for themselves.... Thier life goes in exhibiting thier talent and yearning for recognition... We can admire appreciate....love.....shake hands....buy ticket etc with artists But never ever ever..try to share your life or time with them... Does that mean that artists have no relations.. yes they have but sir i am a normal human being and not a great artist myself ..so artists should usually share thier relations with artists...this is my statement... yes... Otherwise your wife will also get wasted... Artists are for art not for you...this is also my statement
Men and curiosity
Yesterday there was a conversation with my friend.. Not face to face but through an Instant messenger which is accesible to all colleagues in office... He is going through a rough phase and i was asking him deeper questions and counter questions.. Obviously with my point blank conversations he was annoyed ..hurted and finally said i never hurted you or had disbelief in you and how can you say such a such a thing to me... I told him that i atleast said good or bad to you you never expressed anything regarding me...no interest to listen to what i say No curiosity towards my experiences with life..total indifference... He was supporting himself saying that...its the same old story and what is there to hear ....and there would not be any curiosity as it is same people which i am not interested ... It suddenly occured to me that through out the conversation i was trying to prove my loyalty...faith and honesty in the relationship and a relationship needs curiosity... and absolutely there was no curiosity on other side as it is an older relationship ....first of all i am not sure if frienship can be called a relationship i dont think we should call it as soon as its a relationship...bondage pops up...expectations... This experience made me realize one point... Older relationships,affections and emotions and feelings motivate woman where as its the opposite for men older relationships are stale for men...then take them for granted ....slowly they loose interest in them.... only a new one makes them curious and interested...
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