కే విశ్వనాధ్ సినిమాల్లో హీరోయిన్ పాత్రలు

హీరోయిన్ నిరాకరకాలుగా ఆల్మోస్ట్ వామ్ప్స్ గా చూపిస్తున్న ఈ రోజుల్లో
ఒకసారి విశ్వనాధ్ సినిమాల్లో హీరోయిన్లను పరిశీలిస్తే వాళ్ళ చరక్తెరిస్తిసతిఒన్ మొత్తం చాల మతులు హీరోయిన్ పై స్థానం లో ఉంది హీరో హీరోయిన్ ని ఆరాదిస్తూ ఉండటమే మనకి కనబడుతుంది
సప్తపది - హీరో గిరీష్ హీరోయిన్ సబితా ని ఆరాధిస్తూ ఉంటాడు ....ప్రేమ వ్యక్తం చేయడం కాని వెంట పడటం కాని ఉండవు
హీరోయిన్ ఇస్ ఉప్పెర్ అండ్ ఇస్ లేఅర్నేడ్ అండ్ హీరో ఇస్ అద్మిరింగ్ హీరోయిన్
ఆపద్భాందవుడు- హీరోయిన్ వాళ్ళ పక్కింట్లో పశువులు పెంచుకునే వాడిగా హీరో...హీరోయిన్ ని దేవత గా ఆరాధిస్తూ ఉంటాడు....హీరోయిన్ తన ఆపద్భాందవుడు గా భావించి ప్రేమించటం మొదలు పెట్టిన తర్వాతా కూడా హీరో ఆరాధిస్తూ ఉంటాడు..
సాగర సంగమం- అందరికి తెల్సిందే ...హీరోయిన్ ని హీరో ఎంతగా ఆరధన భావం తో చూస్తాడో..ఎప్పుడు సమె లెవెల్ లో చూడదు...హీరోయిన్ ఇష్టపడుతుంది కాని హీరో కి ఒక దేవత నే
శుభలేఖ - హీరో హీరోయిన్ ని కాపాడుతూ ఉంటాడు కాని ప్రేమ తో కాకుండా ఆరాధన తో
సిరి వెన్నెల - గుడ్డివాడైన హీరో తనకి విద్య నేర్పిన ఆవిడని ఎలా ఆరాదిస్తాడో ఇస్తాపదతాడో చూడచ్చు
స్వర్ణ కమలం - ఈ సినిమాలో హీరోయిన్ నాట్యం ని ప్రోత్సహించడం కోసం హీరోయిన్ తపన పడుతూ ఉంటాడు...

హీరో హీరోయిన్ కి మధ్య ఉండే రేలషన్ చాలఆ అద్భుతం గా పవిత్రంగా ఉంటుంది ఆయన సినిమాల్లో...
చాల అందమైన బంధం అది
ఎందఱో మహానుభావులు

ప్రస్తుతానికి తప్పదు

నా పక్కనే ఉన్నాయ్ చాల కాగితాలు..చాల జ్ఞాపకాలు
నా చెంతనే ఉన్నాయ్ చాల వేదనలు చాల రోదనలు
నా ముందుగానే ఉన్నాయ్ ..చాల దారులు చాల గోతులు
నా పైననే ఉన్నాయ్ చాల బాధ్యతలు చాల ఉత్సుకతలు
నా కల్లమున్దున్నాయ్ చాలా దౌర్భాగ్యాలు చాల కుత్సితాలు
పారిపోవాల ....ఎదురీదాల...
కుళ్ళు పూసుకోవలా...కడిగెయ్యాల...
మనకెందుకులే అని ఊరుకోవాల
అందరు ఊరుకుంటే ఎట్లా అని నిలదీయలా
అంత ఓపిక ఉందా ..అంత సత్తువ ఉందా
అంత నిస్వార్థం ఉందా..అంత పట్టుదల ఉందా
అంత క్రమశిక్షణ ఉందా...అంత నిబద్దత ఉందా...
అంత ధైర్యం ఉందా అంత తెగువ ఉందా
అంత నిజం ఉందా..అంత సత్యం ఉందా
అంత దైన్యం ఉందా అంత క్రోధం ఉందా
..ఊరుకుందాం...ఊరికే ఉందాం..
ఇలాగే ఉందాం..ఇలాగే చాద్దాం
నువ్వెంచుకున్నావ్...నువ్వే తగిలించుకున్నావ్..
నువ్వే కావాలన్నావ్...

నీచేత్తో చేసిందే నీ జీవితం
నువ్ మెదనేసుకుందే ఈ డోలు
ఎవరు తప్పు కాదు
ఎవరిది తప్పు లేదు
అందరు మహానుభావులే

ఏమి చెయ్యాలి

ఒక మనిషిని మార్చడానికి ఇంత సమయం పడుతుందా
ఒక మనిషి మీద ప్రేమ కలగడానికి ఎక్కువ సమయం పట్తడే...
మరి మార్హ్చడానికి...మారడానికి...ఇంత సమయమా...
అసలు మారటం అంటూ ఉంటుందా...కంప్రోమిసే అవటం తప్ప వేరే దారి లేదా మనిషికి
కంప్రోమిసే అవ్వలేని మనిషికి జీవితం లేదా...
నిజంగా ఎవరికీ కావలసినట్టు వాళ్ళు జీవిన్చాగాలరా..కలలకి అనుగుణంగా ..
మరి డబ్బో !!! ఎలా వస్తుంది...
డబ్బు ఎలా వొచ్చినా సమాజం బతక నిస్తుందా
ఒక ప్రేమ కసిగా మారటానికి ఎవరు కారణం..
ప్రేమ స్వార్థాన్ని కోరుకుంది కాబట్టే ఈ శిక్ష నా
అసలు అది ప్రేమ కాదేమో...
మరి ఆ తపన ..ఆ ఆరాటం...ప్రేమ కాదా మరి
అవకాశం ,అవసరం వాళ్ళ వొచ్చిన పరిస్థితే కాని...లోపలి నుంచి వొచ్చింది కాదేమో
మనసుడే తప్పేమో...నిన్ను నిన్నుగా ప్రేమించేదే ప్రేమా..ఇదంతా కదా
నేను నువ్వు అంటే ఏమిటి శరీరం తప్ప మనలో తేడా ఏమిటి
మన పరిస్థితా
మన ఆలోచనా
మన తెలివా..
...చాల దూరంగా జరిగిపోయిన మనసు మల్లి దగ్గరయ్యే అవకాశం ఈ జీవితం ఇస్తుందా
ఎం చెయ్యాలి....
మనమోక్కలమే లేమే..మనతో కొన్ని అమాయక ప్రాణాలు ఉన్నాయ్...వాటి పరిస్థితి ఏంటి...
మనం లేకుండా ఉంటె ఏమవుతుంది అనేది బ్రమే నేమో
...ఎం చెయ్యాలి

my trip to tanuku 2012

Recently visited Tanuku a commercial town in west godavari region for couple of days

the reason for visit was for visiting a plot for sale and also to recharge myself..the former being more significant...

why a plot at tanuku..why not at hyderabad

i have this long lasting thought and dream to stay in a place of greenery where there is peace and tranquility with no electronic gadgets not even cell phone
and me and my husband leading a very simple...cool life..
i wanted to build a two roomed simple house there in the plot with all kinds of plants around...marigold...mandaram...thulasi ...what not...

i even went on to dream myself to be an old woman with simple cotton saree living peaceful with no targets in life....


so my travel to tanuku was for that
my handsome brother in law said that there is a plot very near to tanuku...so the plan was to go and visit that plot before taking a decision
all plan made for travel

left on bike towards sec bad station on bike at 5:45 am on New year day Jan 1st 2012
never saw hyd recently at such early hrs
all i could see is sweepers on road..and some elderly men going for a walk
remaining all age groups would have had a blast on new yr and probably have slept happily...
it was not so cold morning
we went to husbands cousins house first kept our bike there
...searched for an auto dint get one...took a bus and left to station

this was the first time i am boarding a general compartment
my parents never did much of travelling and hence dont know much abt trains
as we did not get tickets i opted for janmabhoomi which has all general
sat for 8 hours in general..did not feel that hectic
in the train ..watched a group of very young dynamic badminton players...from pullela gopichand academy ...thier coach was taking them to vijayawada
i envied thier fitness..they were sleek healthy
didnot have anything since morning and was feeling hungry and by the time train reached guntur
again...my handsome..... also smart brother in law...already ordered one of his sub-ordinates to bring food for us at guntur station
his name was "meera"..name sounded strange...thought the name would have been mirajuddin

was feeling extremely hungry when the train reached guntur...got the food ..ate like a hungry dog :)

was thinking what made this guy bring lunch for us
will my h+s BIL give him money
will subordinates do anything for bosses etc etc

reached tadepalli gudem ...felt relaxed
...alas...my chappals broke...walked limping to nearest bus station
my dear hubby instead of taking me in auto to tanuku..gave a statement
"why should we spend in village like this and save in city"

got into tanuku bus

the driver had a soft toy doll ..hanged beside him..looked strange to me...thought it was to remember his daughter ...

reached Y junction near tanuku

BIL along with his BIL and daughter were already waiting there for us
myself and husband on bike
and rest on another bike
reached home...........
yaaaaaaaaawn..........thats all for now.
good night

Back ground checking for brides

i was thinking there should be a background checking for prospective bride grooms ..and in matrimony sites/offices ...a guy with background checked card should be the most preferred one...i have friends who were promised an incorrect salary/property/debts etc. and got married....after marriage same case for brides also....

this mostly happens due to parents not being cautious
...feeling hesitant to cross check twice
as mainly marriage is a trusted relationship

example...a bride is ready for marriage
brides parents search for a groom with a decent salary say 30k

they get a proposal ..who publishes in matrimony site or answers a ph call saying he gets 35k

so what is the cross check there...the girls parents cannot ask for proof as boys side will get offended
so they happily think that they got more than what they thought
do a grand marriage ....and boast of thier son in law salary

the girl also enters with same "trust" that the salary of her husband is enough to lead a life she expected/dreamt...
as usual after marriage ...first 2 months...u like chiru...i like chiru...
third month slowly struggle starts....somehow the guys payslip or bank statement or the guy himself says that he gets approx 25k totally
and 35 k was his about to get hiked salary etc

so the same "trust" gets betrayed...
girl stops believing the guy....all her dreams shatter....she tells to parents...parents cannot do anything now...so the parameter which was basis of the marriage is incorrect now,,,,

same case2: brides parents wants to marry her to a guy who has job and has his own house
the guy shows a house and says it is a common house between him and his bros
guys mother also supports him..
after marriage they came to know that the house does not belong to this guy...and the house is on the name of somebody else
so what should the girls parents do now

better early than late
i say its always better to do a background and thorough checking of the guy before getting married
i very well know that its a sensitive issue on the brides parents side to ask for the credibility of the information...
that is the reason this should be done by the matrimonial site or mediators
i even say ..keeping a private detective and finding the details is much wiser than jumping into the married life without proper cross checking

again pls dont say that person is important ...and his character is important
we cant get those checked....this blog post is not for such senti morons

Tajmahal is for seeing

I have never gone to Tajmahal nor is this post to admire the beauty of Tajmahal nor is it to prove the telugu couplet "ralletthina koolilevvaru" kind of discussion... So what is it i want to say.. I am going to say a truth ..which has dawned upon me recently Tajmahal is for seeing and not living... Yes and if we think ever to live in it...then its a grave for us... .... so what... This is an analogy....boss.. a comparision against artists... Artists are born for themselves.... Thier life goes in exhibiting thier talent and yearning for recognition... We can admire appreciate....love.....shake hands....buy ticket etc with artists But never ever ever..try to share your life or time with them... Does that mean that artists have no relations.. yes they have but sir i am a normal human being and not a great artist myself ..so artists should usually share thier relations with artists...this is my statement... yes... Otherwise your wife will also get wasted... Artists are for art not for you...this is also my statement

Men and curiosity

Yesterday there was a conversation with my friend.. Not face to face but through an Instant messenger which is accesible to all colleagues in office... He is going through a rough phase and i was asking him deeper questions and counter questions.. Obviously with my point blank conversations he was annoyed ..hurted and finally said i never hurted you or had disbelief in you and how can you say such a such a thing to me... I told him that i atleast said good or bad to you you never expressed anything regarding me...no interest to listen to what i say No curiosity towards my experiences with life..total indifference... He was supporting himself saying that...its the same old story and what is there to hear ....and there would not be any curiosity as it is same people which i am not interested ... It suddenly occured to me that through out the conversation i was trying to prove my loyalty...faith and honesty in the relationship and a relationship needs curiosity... and absolutely there was no curiosity on other side as it is an older relationship ....first of all i am not sure if frienship can be called a relationship i dont think we should call it as soon as its a relationship...bondage pops up...expectations... This experience made me realize one point... Older relationships,affections and emotions and feelings motivate woman where as its the opposite for men older relationships are stale for men...then take them for granted ....slowly they loose interest in them.... only a new one makes them curious and interested...

Super moon

made poori
and a poor version of sorakaya payasam ..
going on terrace and enjoying with kid and other family members

i hate "T" issue

surAjyamanalEni swarAjyam endukani..
nijAnni balikOrE samAjam endukani

I donot have any good opinion nor impression on "T" issue
Main reason...I donot find "t" people as evolved as humans
if an human being is basic human with 2 hands 2 feet ..language to talk and some skill to live..then that is the only thing they have

There is no civic sense
nor selfless ness or any respect or idea about any art farm
all they know is to earn and eat singily

Though i am born and broughtup in telangana area ..i dont emphatize with them

The reason could be my love for literature..movies...language..singing
the "T" people i have encountered are people who are just eat...earn..sleep people

This may be....because..never have i encountered a telugu "T" guy who talked abt a lyric
nor a picture...nor a movie..nor a music

Whenever i walk on road and overhear conversation between 2 "T" guys..i just hear an "amount in rupees " conversation

No creativity ...no selflessness..nothing..
and today is the heights of thier insensitivity
they put ropes over the necks of poets of telugu literature and put them in hussain sagar

Poets and literary gurus have done nothing wrong to telugu literature...

Just now watched sri garikapati garu and mudigonda sivaprasad garu in NTV program
as they rightly said..poets and for that matter artists do not belong to a particular region
Garipati garu even went ahead and said who knows tomorrow they will behead us ...
hence pls give away thier state...

He said will nannaya tikkana etc decide to born..they are born like that and what is teh mistake they have done...
Even tamil people irrespective of thier political differences dont do such acts...
and have declared subrahmanya bharathi as thier state poet

"T" people pls dont fall prey to these leaders..
for thier existence they are instigating you

Bahamani sultans and aurangazeb have destoyed our indian culture
..they did it as it is not thiers..

Still ..telugu belongs to you..pls dont do it..
Until you speak telugu and write telugu and until state is divided pls dont do it

I will not be surprised if after giving "t" state they will further divide into smaller and fight among themselves..so first develop culture and think foresightedly
..Just divide..
You donot have idea of language...literature..art..nothing
hence you might not appreciate its beauty
and there is no point telling you these...

My love for my language Telugu

Telugu naa maathru bhaasha...

The istham i have for this language
Is because of two factors
one my grand father who has done his SSLC but has narrated me the meaning of so many things that i starting loving the language
Secondly our telugu teacher,BhasakaraLakshmi teacher

She used to narrate and tell telugu lessons so well that i used to understand and relish the beauty of the poet

I remember 2 beautiful poems from ramayanam which was a part of our telugu text book in my class 8th ..that is 1988

1st one
Inavamsodbhavudaina raghavundu
bhoomeesaatmajul vedkatho thanun
veekshimpa muneeswarundalara
kodandambu chenandhi chivvana mopetti
Gunambu vatti patu baaha sakthi tho deesinan
thunigen chaapmu bhoori ghoshambuna vaardhul mrogu chamdambunan!!!!

2nd one--------
Kadalakumee dharathalama kasyapin battu phanindra
Bhoovishaaspadulanu battu koormama
dharani phani kacchapa pothri vargamun
boduvuchu battudee karulu bhoovareedusi chaapamekkidun!!!

The second one comes first in the book
It is about the "siva dhanurbhangam" in seetha swayam varram

There used to be another lesson paarvathee tapassu
Oh !! what a narration she did
"sireesha pushamavadhaana parathvamunan madhuvrathambekkina norchuno vihaga mekkina norchuno nischayimpumaa...."..one of poems in that lesson
This poem is about a parvathi who does penance for shiva
..There used to be similar one in sanskrit..Aparna jatilam
I love that episode of how
people dissuaed parvathi from choosing lord shiva who has deers skin
and who wanders in burial ground
and who has nothing but just vibhuthi
and who earns by begging(aadhi bhikshuvu)

My friend usha who is equally influenced by the teacher remembers
"Srinagara yathra" and "bala vagmayamu"

I strongly believe that a persons interest in such a such a subject is greatly influenced by his/teachers...

I could not find..Bhaskara laxmi teacher there after
she is no more in the same school
If any body knows or finds her please let me know
and i salute to her through this Blog

Our Howard Roark

Now let me tell you of the most amazing and admiring personality i have met in my life about 9 yrs ago...

9 yrs ago is pretty much big time...isn't it...Do you think i have been closer to him because i know him
No ...he is not of that kind
Though one sits beside him continuously for 7 years
He does not say "Hello" or "How are you" or even "Good Morning" by himself..
Is he arrogant...
No i am not going to tell about those kind of personalities

He is one of the very few in whom i found a great philosophy for life..great detachment towards life...
"Detachment" is his philosophy
There is another word to his philosophy "excellence"
He has decided that whatever comes from him should be excellent...

So he is the most successfull most sought after person and most happiest person who would be happy buying things to his family....

Certainly not...if he were i would not write this article

So why am i writing this and what i want to get by exactly writing this

Having known him for past 9 years...having understood almost every idea of his(which most people dint) and most of his philosophy towards his journey..

Those of you who might be thinking how i understood him when he did not speak to me...
It shows in actions and little words he speaks....
He is outstanding in his commitment...logical thinking analytical approach

To the dumb and stupid questions i have asked him over a period time..
he never explained me very elaborately...just one word or a sentence would be his reply...
and they spoke paras about the fundamentals of the concept...

He was often mistaken to be selfish ..self centered...arrogant...

I understood him.completely

Having journeyed with him silently for so many years
Lot of things go without saying....

His subtle humour which could make you laugh and laugh and brings smile to you whenever you recollect

Do you think he was a nerd or something
No...according to his close being he was the most jovial and friendly guy

He is the most systematic and disciplined person i have ever seen...

One day i got a mail from him at 3 AM I asked him why does he wake up so early
He replied that ...it is a mail sent before sleeping and that he had problem with sleep sometime ago when he slept just 5-6 hrs a week

About 7 yrs ago he was with daughter when he was standing on a ball playing with her
he slipped suddenly and hurt his backbone

According to his own people,Once he was diagnized of a fracture was to go to a computer
search about the fracture and explain to his family "this is where it fractured and this is what the doctors are going to do"
Isn't that called detatchment....!!!


Mind like a windows system...needs rebooting and might crash if its not rebooted atleast once in two days...

Everything is so good about him..isnt it?!!!!

What has this given to him ...
It made him over loaded ...he started every comment and every task positively and responded to it ...no matter what part of the day and which part of the hour it was...

He would delegate but the fellows never understood his logic nor got the point and finally the work was again handled by him

When the power of mind overpowers the body...does n't it collapse..hasn't it happened to swami vivekananda?!!!


His BP and cholestrol are up..
there is hardly blood circulation between his back and his legs
People who have gone to visit him say he is unable to walk
There are deposits in his heartttttt.........and he needs to be operateddddddddd.....
All the over work load...a continous non-sleep work load
a continuous smoking...all took toll on him

Please see that i have written "People who have gone to visit him"...
and you saw it right...

I was always scared of him ...out of respect...
in the name of consoling i didnot dare to visit and disturb him....
No he would not like it...
He does not like sympathy...he is very egotist ...you know...

All i want to ask him is
"Why why why...through your excellence didnot make you understand that there is a mid way between commitment and getting overloaded
Why didnot your wisdom teach you that you are actually hurting yourself for ever...by not standing up and giving up
Why are you so egoistic to not admit your fatigue
Why are you so inefficient in not taking care of your health..

Did you think you could alone pull the boat
Did you think you alone could make it sail
Did you think you could withstand all the odds of nature
Did you think that without you nothing works and the customers office would be shut down...
Did you think that you are the only guy committed...


No you were wrong....you were wrong....
Work on computers is not the only way a man can do in his life...
I always wanted you to write...you spoke hardly
Though i knew there were infinite thoughts ...you never expressed them....
I was able to get in bits and pieces ...But still fall short in putting them together...

So i plead and pray..please go away ...from your computers....
go away sleep peacefully
get healthy...
take care of your family
There are lot other things to do and go....

From Not so intelligent
Sudha

cheetah

Recently most disturbing news which i am hearing on Television is that of
Cheetahs coming to the residential area....

Now whenever i see this news it comes to my mind why are the cheetahs running out of jungles and coming to our areas....

I feel that it is the other way round..may be we are trying to live in thier areas

With the increase in population and dawn of real estate culture we are not finding place to live and we are continuously expanding the residential areas..

On the other side the forests which the cheetahs live in are occupied my tribals
maoists etc etc...not sure of other things

This might have made cheetahs having no space to live and no food ...hence they are fleeing to our areas

And we the humans are now afraid of them now...
try to deactivate them and send them to zoos and forests again...

Is there anything we can do...

birds and fish

For the first time i have bought 2 birds and 2 fish for my house

I am usually averse to raising pets at house
But not able to stop my kids...zidd
i had to ..

Since yesterday i have been telling him i will take you to shop with birds and fish
Woke up a bit late as it was saturday and the first thing he asked me was when shall we go to that shop

I sid 12 o clock then i said 3 then i said 4 PM
and finally me my kid and my helper laxmi started to the shop

The shop is at Allwyn X roads...
I have been watching this shop for the past few weeks
and had always my kid in mind when i passed through it...

My husband and father in law were away today...so no intense cooking today..
That made me into some good mood and wanted to do something different

Cooking eats away my energy and time ....every saturday and sunday
Actually wanted to do much more things today but landed up just completing this...

Now the shop where this birds and fish are sold is approx 6-8 kms from my house
Though i have a car at house i cannot drive
and as my husband is away i need to take an auto
To get any shared auto we have to walk 1 km
So three of us set on a walk and finally reached Nizampet X road
I was scared of taking my helper laxmi more than my kid ..
The reason is that since she is from a village ..she is not used to this halla gol of traffic and sound ...and often has nausea and vomiting...

So i was checking if she was alright

Getting down at nizampet x road..crossed the road..
The traffic was huge as it was peak hour...

Got any other shared auto and went to allwyn x roads..
My kid was restlessly searching for the shop...

I warned to him not to look at everything and ask me to buy in the shop
The shop wallas are best pscychologists...psychiatrists..they can easily guess whether the person who has come will buy or will not....will bargain..or shall we reduce
they will calculate the desperateness of children ....wifes curioisty...
they are masters in that...

Hence warned my kid against it....
outside the shop there were yellow and blue colored birds ..including parrot etc
and on one side there were white and grey colored rabbits
inside the shop they had acquariums of variou sizes

I went into the shop and told that this is the first time i was buying hence needed minimum sized bowl and couple of fish and food for it...
everything of it costed me 185..
That was quite a cheap amount...
I was happy
Now the birds they were costly according to me...2 birds costed around 350
and the cage costed 500 and the food 75
So everything for 925
with great difficulty finally bargained for 800
and got ..
Now i was a bit embarassed of having spent that much money on 2 little birds
How would my family receeive it
will ppl think that i am flaunting my money too much
Saw a beggar...was thinking that these rich people cry for giving us 1 rupee and buy birds..and care abt them

Why do human beings care for non-humans rather than humans...

i warned to my helper not to reveal its price if anybody asks in the auto
none of them asked except one woman
immediately after she saw the cage..first question was where and how much...
i was prepared not to answer..so shall i remain silent if when she asked
or shall i say i am not interested in answering your question
or..i dont usually reveal prices..
I just ignored her question..she put it again...i ignored again and looked at other side....

why i did not like that question?
May be i myself am not convinced abt the cost....

we slowly got down at Nizampet village
walked 1 km again

remembered the details of maintainence from the shop guy
while my kid and helper were busy putting water into fish bowl and
giving food to birds...
i prepared lemon juice...

Me and my kid and helper sat outside...
Outside with cool breeze at own house
with glass of lemon water....

I thank all nature....for giving me such soothing and comfort
After hearing all traffic nonsense..returning back to home is truly relaxing...

My quotes and beliefs

Life is God

Support is not stopping other person do the task..it is the initiative you take to make the other person complete the task

You donot become big when others become small

Theres a lot of difference between existing,surviving and living

A person who does not turn an evolution atleast 0.00000000000001th percent is actually useless...

Do what is needful not what is needed

If you are helping others..lead thier simple life...then what are they doing...(Only applicable for non-friends)

Revenge Story behind ash gourd fryums(boodidha gummadi kaaya vadiyalu)

It was my year long desire to make fryums out of ash gourd

It is a tradition in andhra to serve fryums during any occasion
Like marriage ,festivals and guest visit

If anybody has any doubt what is ash gourd refer to pic below


I want to share with you all (and myself) a revenge story....behind this vadiyalu
though the story is not the only one to motivate me to make them...
It is definitely one of the factor

One person(will not name..people who know me well know her)...knew that i like them
she offered that as i like that she would bring the ash gourd from vizag
I pleasantly said no as it would difficult for her to carry so much of weight
she insisted and i refused...

Later one of my relatives had this ash iurd in thier back yard and they offered me..
i immediately got it in auto carrying it
I was just wating to make her do vadiyaalu for me

next day morning she and her daughter got up
made vodiyaalu batter
and
put only 25 vadiyaalu and made rest all as "Atlu" or pan cakes
i was awestruck and cheated
i had so much hope and imagined and dreamt of having lot of them through out year
The year before year i didnot have them and yearned for them...
hence was eagerly waiting
moreover she said more than fryums...pan cakes are more special...
and also added..."You know right?!!! i usually am not healthy and hence dont make them..
my akka used to make them"

I felt cheated ..cheated ..cheated

Thats why i was very much interested in planting a creeper
Luckily my kid along with his buddy ...just like that sowed the ash gourd seeds

a big creeper came...and occupied whole of my lawn area..
we have totally 9-10 ash gourds...
i want to make vadiyaalu out of atleast 1 or 2
and distribute to the woman
who cheated me
...
want to show that i too can...

Isnt it stupid...silly...
but then who said i am not stupid and silly

waiting for these vadiyams to get dried

to add on the technical side
1)with vadiyam batter if we do vada/garelu type taste will be awesome
2)we can make attu/pan cake with same batter...just like what the woman in my story did
after drying the fryms in sun for 1 day..it will be half dried and half kaccha
3)you can fry them and have it with hot rice...
4)ash gourd juice is very healthy according to ayurveda..you can have juice with ashgourd as well
please let me know if somebody want to know more about this

Happy frying...and thanks for sparing your time for this stupid creature...
Thanks for bearing me ...

newzealand photos

I know it already

Often i come across situations where one person share with the other person
some updates or new findings enthusiastically

They could be friends,relatives,colleagues

Opposite people coolly say "we know it already!!!"

It is a form of ego in lighter form
It not only exhibits ego of a person
but also disappoints other person who wants to share the info with enthu....

it makes the guy face pale....and often embarrased....

It is utterly bad habit....
I am yet to overcome that...but i sincerely feel everybody should avoid that

It shows that the person had stopped listening to people
One should be a good listener to learn things
if you cant wait till the other person stops the sentence then that means
that you have nothing to listen
and just overloaded with already existing knowledge that you want to just dump....

stay natural

Man and human species are outcome of certain chemical changes in nature...
It is said that Human being is most evolved being (?)

We have not discovered till now if there exists an evolved species on earth apart from Man

If a computer is made of software and hardware
the amount of software in the system and number of applications loaded and system processing speed and memory decide whether the system is well configured

similarly knowledge .intelligence memory decide the worth of a person...

humans are part of nature and share the planets like a plan and other animals/insects

Now a days all of us are hearing word "Avoid plastic"

why we should avoid ...as it does not decompose and get decayed easily....
why it does not?...because it is not a natural product

products other than the ones got from trees or earth are unnatural
products manufactured inside manufacturing unit like plastic,chip

They are not from nature..hence will not go well with nature...
what happens is they start impacting the surroundins
eg:cell phone
when cell phone came it was a rage
Even daily wage labourers have cell phone
the influence of usage of that cell phone is huges
Its dangerous radiations effect the brain ..the body...
spoil the surroundings....
cause cancer
unnecessary communications...will lead to unnecessary problems
heat and disturbance produced by these technology can cause huge negative impact...
usage of TV...Sound pollution...ill effect on eyes....kids addictions etc etc

So what we need to do
we need to be choosy and try to be as much as close to nature

as we go away from nature ...and start using more unnatural things...sure for sure 100% there would be side effects
tooth brushing.....use natural like neem,salt
gas-use natural gas
utensils ...avoid nickel coated ..use steel..and if possible...copper,brass or clay ones
soap:stop using artificial soap and use home made powders to give foam and cleanliness
shampoo---ayurvedic or rita powder,shikakai etc already in place
dress:cotton no synthetic
bag-jute bags
footwear:mostly made of natural material
food:not processed ...only natural..try to invent simple methods by which we can grow our own vegetables....
.............
Live life naturally

Assumption

"Assumptions are root causes of all screw ups"
Saw this caption in one of chat contacts...

This is extremely true statement
whether it is software project or a work in daily routine...
We make several assumptions to start a work,
We take few things for granted
and often think with a closed mind....
hence stop thinking laterally and rationally
With my experience i often found that if we conclude something by considering all dimensions ....
God will show the fourth dimension....
May be that 4th dimension is luck, fate...

Hope

hope is a small light
without which everything is dark....

hope is a ray of mind.....
without which there is no life

millions of people in this world
live in world of hope..

Without hope there is no future..theres only past