Propose dispose

Propose dispose
There is lot of gap between planning and implementation
escpecially if this is done at different tiers or by different people
For ex i am constructing a house and gave certain specificatins to the builder
Now the builder would not actually go and construct the house right
he would give to the work to a mason and the mason to a worker at the location

Now suppose i go and visit the house under construction once in a while
and i happen ti see certain flaw
what i do ...i go to builder and tell him
Now by the time i come next day......the builder has to tell mason and the mason to the worker
When all this communication in place..the actual work is done...
if there is a gap in any of this communications
for a simple reason say...the cell phone of the mason is busy ..then the builder may not be able to tell him and this may result in a irreverable damage to the design.....isnt it?

similarly if i want something to be carried over to somebody at home and if it time bound
I communicate it to my family persons through SMS
then i leave to office
If the people at home dont communicate with each other and based on SMS if the person does things at wrong time.....
then the actual work is not done....though i planned it right.....
so we propose and god disposes.....
Posted by Sudha at 3:36 AM 0 comments Labels: Planning and execution
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
School of mischief
The other day i was telling to my kid that i will join him in a school where there are no studies
but the only thing they need to do is play and be mischievous

Really how happy the kids would be ..playing..throwing mud....hitting.....eating chocolates......
hitting each other.......crying..complaining.....

In india and in AP especially i donot think the current schools are depriving kids of the happiness they deserve in thier childhood...

homework competition exams IITS EAMCETs ...oh
Granted that they passed those exams and became successful in life ....success here means money

But would they get the happiness and silliness they lost....

Will they feel that they have led life fullest.....i doubt.....
But again with those sacrifices may be country is built...thats a different story
Posted by Sudha at 9:01 PM 0 comments Labels: School of mischief
born to me
The other day my son was doing a mischief when i asked him to stop that...
The answer he gave me was 'my wish'
Then i thought intelligetly and answered back to him
'As i gave birth to you it is my wish and not yours'
swift came his reply
'I have taken birth in you so it is my wish'
I was both amused and suprised and enlightened...Amused due to his wit and suprised due to his logic...and enlightened for the answer ....
In movies and in life in general we often think that we have given birth to kids and hence they should listen to us and obey us......
Is it that we have given birth to them .....or is it that 'they' have taken birth....
we tend to think that without us they are not there and each and every cell of them belongs to us...
Is it really true......
I guess they are born 'through' us and not 'by' us.
What i mean by this is we are only channels for making them step on this earth and we should not beleieve or think that we possess whole and sole rights on them and insist that they need to obey us ....as we gave birth to them....
But again if we dont possess them then why the responsibilities....
Not sure of it....but as medium for thier birth we owe to them few things and they are our responsibilities...
Here i am not talking abt dharma or indian culture...
Even if we talk about Hindu Dharma
Our duty probably lies in given birth to a soul on earth....and trying to make thier life smoother.....
They say soul searches for a proper womb and takes birth....
May be that is the reason why inspite of trying hard some people does give birth.....
Posted by Sudha at 8:51 PM 0 comments Labels: Birth
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